I recently did something that I have never done before. I went on a long road trip with a friend. Just the two of us on a four-day drive to Alaska. There is a lot of stuff going on in both of our lives so we had a lot to talk about right out of the driveway. I think we had gone like 250 miles before one us of decided to take a break from the conversations and play something through the car stereo knowing that there would be more conversation taking place later.
When you are in confined quarters as we were for as long as we were you get to know each other a lot more than when you are at each other’s house or in a larger group of friends. On the downside you find out that things you love to do are things they find extremely boring. You find that audio books you were excited to hear are ones that put them to sleep. On the upside you find that you share the same views on faith, family, and politics. So when you are listening to other audio books that you both like you can stop the playback and have deep discussions about a particular point the author just made. You find that they are a great sounding board to vent all your frustrations onto. All this without the worry of having to cut things short because of time constraints.
So this was the best formula for a road trip that I have had in a long time. Outside of traveling alone with the wife or just one of the kids of course. Most of the time when you are faced with a long journey all you are concerned with is conquering all those hundreds of miles. Not this time. I was apprehensive about covering over 650 miles each day for multiples of days, but that went away half way through the first day. Each night when we decided on a stopping point I found myself looking forward to the following days journey.
So if you ever have the chance to go a long multi-day road trip with a friend that you never really get to hang out with one on one, go for it. You will most likely leave the driveway as friends, and return as really good friends.
So to my recent travel buddy, I would do it again. But, maybe to a different destination just to keep things fresh.